One of the issues confronting the marriage institution today is the challenge of loneliness in marriages. Isn’t that amazing? Most single people bask in the euphoria of ‘’when I just marry, this my present loneliness will be over’’. My dear that is not the case for everybody in marriage. I...

The truth is that different things in the opposite sex attract different people. People have different specs of what they want in life and that also include relationship. God created man in His image and likeness as the Bible tells us. He created some tall, some of average height and some not too ta...

   Masturbation is one of the issues many singles confront. Amazingly there are also a huge number of married people who also indulge in masturbation. Masturbation is simply the art or practice of fiddling with your reproductive organ, exciting yourself and discharging of fluid (for female) an...

We had a great time on air on Sunday 7th June, 2015 on Top Radio 90.9FM discussion programme #Sincerelymen (5.00pm-7.00pm), I am sure those who called in and those who listened in too had interesting time. In the course of the programme, a certain grandma called in to ask the regular relationship pr...

I believe in God and also respect fundamental Human rights of man as guaranteed by the law or constitution of any country or society. However, I have concerns for any right that conflicts with the right of the creator. Such rights are devilish right and any act that conflicts with the instructions o...

One day, few years back a young lady who was a young Christian convert walked into my office and said; ‘’Sir, I need your advice. I heard God tell me that someone is my husband but the person is physically challenged. He is blind. What do I do?’’ I asked if she was sure it […]...

After doing the write-ups; WHY MARRIED MEN CHASE SINGLE LADIES and WHY MARRIED WOMEN CHASE SINGLE GUYS, I had promised to do the above but I have not been able to. At some point I even forgot I made the promise earlier, so you have it now. A single lady is any lady that is […]...

A  young university undergraduate many years back once told me how she was rebuked sharply by her then roommate when she said she was a virgin at 24. I understand same fear and shame still permeate the heart of many to disclose their virginity, especially to their wayward peers. Friends, don’t be...

What is temptation? Have you ever been tempted before? What did you do about it? Did you fall for it or you overcame it? In the fast selling book- FIGHTING TEMPTATION which I wrote and published in 2013, I identified 4 major sources of temptation that is common to all. I also explained how best [&he...

On Sunday, 26th April, 2015 on #Sincerelymen (the popular Top Radio 90.9Fm relatiosnhip talk show) between 5.00pm and 7.00pm was a number of callers, twitts and sms asking me various questions that bother on relationship. However, one striking one was the sms someone sent in saying her parents donâ€...